But I can honestly say, both the guys had very good manners in bed that when compared to my ex made realise even more how very selfish he was.
So, Toy Boy; a very cute tall, good looking, surfer style sweet guy with an enormous willy.
I'd been volunteering and was in desperate need of a bikini wax, I was not expecting to sleep with anyone so hadn't addressed it that urgently. However as we're getting down to it I think I have to warn him.
'I've got a really hairy noonie' I told him, 'How hairy?' He asks 'Like REALLY' and he replied with 'who cares' as he slid my knickers off and we continued which then totally put me at ease, although he did make a bit of a fuss about wearing condoms but soon got over it. But this is what impressed me, he asked where he could cum which I thought was quite considerate as the ex would never do this, and he even got tissues and cleaned me up with him after.
'If he gets up to get the tissues he's a keeper' my friend said.
Such a shame I didn't get his number.
The Australian; so I admit I met him through tinder we'd been texting for a while but kept missing each other so when it was my last night I thought go for it. I was with a couple I know, the four of us went back to their penthouse suite and got very drunk in their hot tub in the hotel room!
I decided we should go back to mine for a bit more privacy. He held my hand as we walked back chatting about our lives.
He didn't complain about wearing condoms and he made sure I came first.
Then the next morning as I woke with an awful hangover he was very caring, rubbing my back and playing with my hair. HUGE BROWNIE POINTS! He didn't rush off either, he hung around whilst I packed and got ready and carried all of my bags to the taxi for me which we shared and dropped him off as I made my way to the airport on to my next country.
'I'm here for a good time, not a long time' is a motto a girl I made friends with out there and I think it's one you can apply to all areas of life.
I'm quite confident sexually, but it's always nicer when you're with someone that treats you well... Even if it just a one night stand.
So don't forget your bed side manners. You'll get a lot more from it!